{"id":1380,"date":"2022-12-19T04:12:00","date_gmt":"2022-12-19T04:12:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/chatandbother.com\/w\/?p=1380"},"modified":"2026-02-04T21:58:26","modified_gmt":"2026-02-05T03:58:26","slug":"what-does-winning-look-like-to-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/chatandbother.com\/w\/what-does-winning-look-like-to-you\/","title":{"rendered":"What Does Winning Look Like to You?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<iframe data-testid=\"embed-iframe\" style=\"border-radius:12px\" src=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/embed\/episode\/56vVYDZDoSWqM0T9sT1tGQ?utm_source=generator&#038;theme=0\" width=\"100%\" height=\"152\" frameBorder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"\" allow=\"autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; fullscreen; picture-in-picture\" loading=\"lazy\"><\/iframe>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Welcome to this episode of Chat &amp; Bother, where Eva and Don explore the innate desire for victory within us all. Do you thrive on competition? 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