{"id":1454,"date":"2023-07-17T06:59:00","date_gmt":"2023-07-17T06:59:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/chatandbother.com\/w\/?p=1454"},"modified":"2026-02-04T21:47:14","modified_gmt":"2026-02-05T03:47:14","slug":"when-did-you-know-you-were-a-grown-up","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/chatandbother.com\/w\/when-did-you-know-you-were-a-grown-up\/","title":{"rendered":"When Did You Know You Were a Grown Up?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<iframe data-testid=\"embed-iframe\" style=\"border-radius:12px\" src=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/embed\/episode\/2z9EbGutFpUwqVMyJ5Fl1J?utm_source=generator&#038;theme=0\" width=\"100%\" height=\"152\" frameBorder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"\" allow=\"autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; fullscreen; picture-in-picture\" loading=\"lazy\"><\/iframe>\n\n\n\n<p>Was there something that your parents or other family members said or did that told you that you were finally grown? 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