{"id":1493,"date":"2023-11-06T08:15:00","date_gmt":"2023-11-06T08:15:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/chatandbother.com\/w\/?p=1493"},"modified":"2026-02-04T21:35:12","modified_gmt":"2026-02-05T03:35:12","slug":"aita-part-1-whos-the-boss","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/chatandbother.com\/w\/aita-part-1-whos-the-boss\/","title":{"rendered":"AITA Part 1: Who&#8217;s the Boss?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<iframe data-testid=\"embed-iframe\" style=\"border-radius:12px\" src=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/embed\/episode\/4n3fl7N10bWf5udSmLpDIO?utm_source=generator&#038;theme=0\" width=\"100%\" height=\"152\" frameBorder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"\" allow=\"autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; fullscreen; picture-in-picture\" loading=\"lazy\"><\/iframe>\n\n\n\n<p>Is she a bridezilla or a blushing bride? This week on Chat and Bother, Don and Eva weigh in on some wedding drama from AITA (Am I the A**hole?) on Reddit. 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