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AITA for telling my daughter\u2019s stepmother that she hasn\u2019t bought her love?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I (35F) share custody of my 13-year-old daughter with her father (36M). He\u2019s been remarried for about two years to \u201cLaura\u201d (41F), who is very well-off. She has a fantastic job, works from home, and seems to have an unlimited budget for things my daughter loves\u2014designer clothes, expensive purses, gadgets, etc. Every time my daughter comes back from their house, she has something new and expensive that is way out of her father\u2019s price range.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s hard not to feel like Laura is trying to buy my daughter\u2019s affection. Beyond the gifts, Laura spends a lot of time with her\u2014doing crafts, helping with school projects, and even taking her to special events. I\u2019ll admit that it stings because I can\u2019t afford to do those things or match the level of attention Laura gives due to my own demanding job.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Here\u2019s the thing, though: when my daughter talks to me about Laura, she never has anything good to say. She\u2019ll tell me about the gifts or the outings, but she always ends up complaining about how much Laura talks, how her voice is annoying, that she can’t cook, or how she doesn\u2019t \u201cget\u201d her. I don\u2019t know if my daughter is genuinely unhappy with her stepmother or if she\u2019s just trying to make me feel better because she knows it\u2019s hard for me to see someone else playing such a big role in her life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019ve been tempted to tell Laura what my daughter says about her\u2014not in a mean way, but to make it clear that all her spending hasn\u2019t \u201cbought\u201d my daughter\u2019s love. I feel like she should know that their relationship isn\u2019t as perfect as she might think and that maybe she\u2019s overcompensating. At the same time, I don\u2019t want to cause unnecessary drama or make my daughter feel like I\u2019m trying to keep her from getting all of the gifts and perks that her stepmom can give. Just to be clear, I don’t have any issues with Laura. We actually get along fine when we are around each other.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Would I be the asshole if I told Laura that, despite all the time and money she spends, my daughter doesn\u2019t actually like her?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

TL;DR<\/strong>: My daughter\u2019s stepmother showers her with expensive gifts and quality time, but my daughter always complains about her to me. Would I be the asshole for telling her stepmother that her efforts haven\u2019t \u201cbought\u201d my daughter\u2019s love?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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